Eating Disorders -- An Open Letter to My Colleagues

It happened to me. One of my favorite patients, whom I had been seeing for a few years, sat nervously in the room. I remember bursting in the room with my usual loud "hello" and noticing she looked pale, drawn and hesitant. After careful prodding, she finally told me her real story -- not the one I had heard the last three years. She was bulimic and haunted by a binge-purge cycle that would take over her nights and ruin her days. Her stomach ached, she hated herself and her husband just wanted her to get help. How did I miss this? Did I not spend enough time with her, did I not make her comfortable enough to confess this to me years ago? After blaming myself, I realized that I should be thankful that she opened the door to this conversation and for every patient after her, I would ask the tough question: "Do you think you have an eating disorder?" The story of women loathing themselves is not a new one and often takes on many forms and faces. Eating disorders are the silent self hate for many women, a secret life, an underworld of sorts, as they wrestle with deeper wounds. After all the average American women is 5 feet 4 inches and 165 pounds, while the average Miss America is 5 feet, 7 inches and 121 pounds. As physicians, we have to ask the question and we have to create a safe space for discussion, without judgement or contempt. (1) Almost 30 million people suffer from eating disorders. While this particular patient was female, eating disorders cross gender and age pr...
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