Do You Hold These Distorted Beliefs About Relationships?
We develop all sorts of ideas about relationships from our families and friends, our own experiences and, of course, from our culture. We develop these ideas from movies and sitcoms, too. In fact, therapist Anna Osborn, LMFT, has worked with several couples who’ve used on-screen couples as examples of what their relationship should look like. “I’ve had to gently remind them that those people are being paid money to follow a director’s script,” Osborn said. We might not realize it but these distorted beliefs pervade our psyche and deeply affect our relationships. For instance, we might end a relationship p...
Source: World of Psychology - May 5, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Margarita Tartakovsky, M.S. Tags: General Marriage and Divorce Mental Health and Wellness Relationships Alyssa Mairanz Anna Osborn Communication connection Couples cultivating connection distorted beliefs healthy communication Healthy Relationships Interpersonal Source Type: blogs

Best of Our Blogs: May 5, 2017
I’ve finally done it! My inbox has reached full capacity. Sorting through ten years of emails has been eye-opening. Deciding which newsletters to unsubscribe from and which emails need to go, gave me a fresh perspective on how I approach my own life. How many of us feel maxed out, pushed past our limits, staying up an extra hour to get it all done and feeling depleted the next morning? I vowed that if I were to give attention to what’s unnecessary in my email, I would give the same care to what’s not needed in my life. All those emails I would never read apply to the books on my shelf and nightstand that ...
Source: World of Psychology - May 5, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Brandi-Ann Uyemura, M.A. Tags: Best of Our Blogs E Mail Eating Disorder Eating Disorder Treatment Egotism Emotion Emotional incest Fear Of Rejection Feeling Listening Skills Madeleine Wilson Narcissism Narcissist relationship Narcissistic Personality Disorder Source Type: blogs

New Milgram replication finds 90 per cent of Polish participants willing to deliver highest shock
By guest blogger Ginny Smith Fifty years ago, in Connecticut, a series of infamous experiments were taking place. The volunteers believed they were involved in an investigation into learning and memory, and that they would be administering shocks to a test subject whenever he answered questions incorrectly. But despite pretences, the scientist behind the research, Stanley Milgram, wasn’t actually interested in learning. The real topic of study? Obedience. Milgram recorded how far his participants were willing to go when told to deliver larger and larger shocks. In one version of the study, 26 out of 40 participants conti...
Source: BPS RESEARCH DIGEST - May 5, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: BPS Research Digest Tags: guest blogger Morality Social Source Type: blogs

New Milgram replication in Poland finds 90 per cent of participants willing to deliver highest shock
By guest blogger Ginny Smith Fifty years ago, in Connecticut, a series of infamous experiments were taking place. The volunteers believed they were involved in an investigation into learning and memory, and that they would be administering shocks to a test subject whenever he answered questions incorrectly. But despite pretences, the scientist behind the research, Stanley Milgram, wasn’t actually interested in learning. The real topic of study? Obedience. Milgram recorded how far his participants were willing to go when told to deliver larger and larger shocks. In one version of the study, 26 out of 40 participants conti...
Source: BPS RESEARCH DIGEST - May 5, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: BPS Research Digest Tags: Cross-cultural guest blogger Morality Social Source Type: blogs

How to Spot and Stop Passive-Aggressive Behavior
Don’t let it drive you crazy! What does “passive-aggressive” REALLY mean? And why is it so hard to identify passive-aggressive behavior in co-workers and partners? People who have passive-aggressive traits suppress their angry responses because they fear conflict, and the anger comes out in other, more passive ways. 8 Brutally Honest Marriage Truths I Learned From My Therapist For example, instead of having an argument that might risk the end of her relationship, Mary accidentally launders her husband’s white shirts with her red dress so they all come out pink. Or maybe Jeff is furious with his boss, b...
Source: World of Psychology - May 4, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Psych Central Staff Tags: Anger Brain and Behavior Publishers Relationships Violence and Aggression YourTango agreements apologize Assertive Boundaries Consequences Emotions Excuse Expectations Feelings Lori Beth Bisbey Partner Passive Aggressive Source Type: blogs

I Have A Very Hard Time “ Reading ” People. Explain Adult ADHD
I Have A Very Hard Time “Reading” People. By @KariTaber Her blog is Everywhere But Here. Part of #ExplainAdultADHD. Reducing stigma and ignorance against ADHD adults by crowdsourcing our creativity and persuasion powers to help our fellow adults with ADHD. Share one, not three specific point you want non-ADDers to know about what it’s really like living with Adult ADHD and I post it on my blog & share it on social media with the hashtag #ExplainAdultADHD and encourage others to share it. I Have A Very Hard Time “Reading” People. By @KariTaber “For example, I can know you very, v...
Source: Adult ADD Strengths - May 4, 2017 Category: Psychiatry Authors: Pete Quily Tags: Explain One Point About Adult ADHD To Non-ADHD Adults Source Type: blogs

The Everyday Foods That Reduce Social Anxiety
People who are particularly neurotic may benefit from this group of common foods — plus exercise. • Click here for your free sample of Dr Jeremy Dean's latest ebook The Anxiety Plan: 42 Strategies For Worry, Phobias, OCD and Panic • Dr Dean is also the author of Spark: 17 Steps That Will Boost Your Motivation For Anything. (Source: PsyBlog | Psychology Blog)
Source: PsyBlog | Psychology Blog - May 4, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Jeremy Dean Tags: Psychology Source Type: blogs

How Most People Are Killing Their Productivity
It can feel really good but it is reducing productivity by up to 40%. • Click here for your free sample of Dr Jeremy Dean's latest ebook The Anxiety Plan: 42 Strategies For Worry, Phobias, OCD and Panic • Dr Dean is also the author of Spark: 17 Steps That Will Boost Your Motivation For Anything. (Source: PsyBlog | Psychology Blog)
Source: PsyBlog | Psychology Blog - May 4, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Jeremy Dean Tags: Attention Source Type: blogs

Recovering from Abuse: Collecting Pebbles
One of the most common things I hear from survivors of psychological abuse is their confusion about why they didn’t notice the red flags sooner in the relationship. It doesn’t matter if the toxic person is a parent, co-worker, friend or love interest, almost all survivors seriously doubt themselves for not seeing the toxicity earlier. Once a survivor’s eyes are opened to the abuse they have endured, they wonder why they didn’t set better boundaries before they found themselves in a world of hurt from the psychological games. Survivors of this type of abuse have their lives completely rocked and thrown into chaos. T...
Source: World of Psychology - May 4, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Shannon Thomas, LCSW Tags: Bullying Marriage and Divorce PTSD Relationships Trauma abuse Child Abuse Intimidation Physical Abuse Psychological abuse Psychological Manipulation toxic people Source Type: blogs

As news approaches, even optimists brace for the worst
By Christian Jarrett Psychologists studying how our expectations change over time have observed that our hopes tend to dip the nearer we get to receiving some feedback, be that an exam result, sports score or health test outcome. They call this “bracing” and there’s evidence we do it more in some situations than others, for example the more severe the potential outcome and the more personally relevant, the more we brace. But do some of us brace more than others, and specifically, do optimists brace as much as pessimists? According to a series of nine studies published recently in the Journal of Personali...
Source: BPS RESEARCH DIGEST - May 4, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: BPS Research Digest Tags: Personality Source Type: blogs

Podcast: Learn about NoStigmas – Mental Health Peer Support Movement
In this episode of the Psych Central Show, hosts Gabe and Vincent chat with Jacob Moore, founder of NoStigmas.org, a social movement for mental health awareness and peer support. NoStigmas is a place for people to connect, share stories, and learn about mental health without feeling alone or ashamed. Jacob speaks and writes on the topics of mental wellness, suicide prevention, stigmas, peer support, and holistic health. Jacob Moore Listen as Our Hosts Learn About the NoStigmas Mental Health Movement “If we can be a conduit to care and if we can connect people that way, then we’ve done our job.” ~ ...
Source: World of Psychology - May 4, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Gabe Howard Tags: General Mental Health and Wellness The Psych Central Show Gabe Howard Jacob Moore peer support Vincent M. Wales Source Type: blogs

3 Simple Ways to Deal with Toxic Relationships at Work
You’ve got this. In addition to my focus on couples, I have done some business consulting and have helped businesses be more profitable by developing healthier relationships at work. Researchers have consistently shown that there is a connection between good morale, healthy work relationships, and productivity. However, sometimes, just as in personal relationships, you have to deal with a toxic relationship at work. People Over 40 Should Have 4-Day Weekends Says Science I have helped many clients in my private practice deal with people at work who are draining their energy, creating a lot of stress and anxiety and m...
Source: World of Psychology - May 3, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Psych Central Staff Tags: Industrial and Workplace Publishers Relationships YourTango anxiety business relationships at work Stress Todd Creager toxic people Toxic Relationships Work Relationships Source Type: blogs

Fear as a Teacher
“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.” – Eleanor Roosevelt Taking a deep breath as I am typing these words about a topic that is inherent in the human condition. I consider myself a pretty brave person, having faced deaths of family members and friends, injury, an ectopic pregnancy, financial challenge, a heart attack, shingles, kidney stones, job layoff, illness, relationships ending, and loss of my home in a hurricane. These are all common life events; some expected, most arriving o...
Source: World of Psychology - May 3, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Edie Weinstein, MSW, LSW Tags: Anxiety and Panic Self-Help Success & Achievement Source Type: blogs

Traumatic Memories Reduced 62% By Classic Game
Those who had played the game had 62% fewer intrusive memories in the following week. • Click here for your free sample of Dr Jeremy Dean's latest ebook The Anxiety Plan: 42 Strategies For Worry, Phobias, OCD and Panic • Dr Dean is also the author of Spark: 17 Steps That Will Boost Your Motivation For Anything. (Source: PsyBlog | Psychology Blog)
Source: PsyBlog | Psychology Blog - May 3, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Jeremy Dean Tags: Psychology Source Type: blogs

The Best Exercise Combination To Boost Brain Power
Resistance and aerobic exercise were tested alongside tai chi and yoga. • Click here for your free sample of Dr Jeremy Dean's latest ebook The Anxiety Plan: 42 Strategies For Worry, Phobias, OCD and Panic • Dr Dean is also the author of Spark: 17 Steps That Will Boost Your Motivation For Anything. (Source: PsyBlog | Psychology Blog)
Source: PsyBlog | Psychology Blog - May 3, 2017 Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Jeremy Dean Tags: Boost Brain Power Source Type: blogs