This Valentine ’s Day, 14 ways parents can show love for their children

Follow me on Twitter @drClaire Valentine’s Day — a day we associate with love. Usually we think of the day in terms of romantic love, with cards and flowers for our partner, but it can also be a day to show love for our children and to think about how we can better make our children feel loved all year round. When children feel loved, it not only builds happiness, but confidence and resilience, both of which can make a lifelong difference. That’s why the American Academy of Pediatrics suggests these 14 tips for this February 14th 1.   Be positive and encouraging when you talk with your children. Skip the sarcasm and put-downs, even if you are joking. Think about the “Golden Rule.” Treat your children the way you’d like to be treated. 2.  Say things like “please,” “thank you,” and “I’m sorry.” Be kind and polite. Not only does it show respect and kindness to your children, it sets a good example about how to talk to people generally. 3.  Respond promptly to your children’s physical and emotional needs, even if it’s not the best time for you. Put aside what you are doing, turn off the TV or computer, and listen or help. It sends the message that your children matter more than anything. Ask them about their day — and pay attention to the answer. 4.  When your children are angry or just in a bad mood, instead of getting angry or in a bad mood yourself, try giving them a quick hug or other sign of affection they respond to — and talking to th...
Source: Harvard Health Blog - Category: Consumer Health News Authors: Tags: Children's Health Parenting Source Type: blogs