You ’ ve Hurt Your Partner: Here ’ s How to Apologize Sincerely

Everyone makes mistakes. Here’s how to fix them. You messed up and made a huge mistake. You really blew it, and now your partner is giving you heck about it, seething with disappointment, hurt, and pain. Now you need to apologize so it doesn’t continually affect your relationship — but sometimes, knowing how to apologize in a way that your partner knows you mean it is the tough part. Guilt washes over you as your conscience reminds you that you didn’t keep your word or your end of a commitment. Or quite adversely — a more flippant, “What’s the big deal anyway? Get over it!” attitude. If you sometimes feel like it’s easier to put your head in the sand and go passive, defend yourself, or dismiss or deny your partner’s perspective when you screw up, you are not alone. What more does your partner want from you anyway? You said you were sorry and that should be enough and now we can move on, right? Nope. Your partner wants you to really understand how your blunder affected them. If you understand, and can even offer some empathetic words, it opens up the possibility for them to feel soothed, calmer, and more connected to you. It can also help your partner let go of the pain that your blunder caused them. Recognizing where your partner is coming from means asking them questions in a non-defensive manner so that you can better understand the situation. Only then can a true apology be born. But of course, if it were that eas...
Source: World of Psychology - Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Tags: Communication General Marriage and Divorce Publishers Relationships YourTango apologize how to say your sorry Source Type: blogs

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Source: International Angiology - Category: Cardiology Tags: Int Angiol Source Type: research
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AbstractAortobronchial fistula (ABF) is a rare and devastating complication, if left untreated. Its main clinical manifestation is hemoptysis, and there are no defined guidelines for its treatment yet. Herein, we present the case of a 74-year-old male who complained of back pain and hemoptysis. The patient was diagnosed with pseudo-aneurysm and ABF, and he underwent hybrid thoracic endovascular aortic repair. However, hemoptysis recurred. With patch aortoplasty and anatomical lung resection, successful management of ABF was achieved, with no relapse for 5  years.
Source: Indian Journal of Thoracic and Cardiovascular Surgery - Category: Cardiovascular & Thoracic Surgery Source Type: research
Conclusion/clinical relevance: Posterior and anterior epidural, and intradural disc migration may manifest with clinical symptoms indistinguishable from those associated with non-sequestered lumbar disc hernias. Missed, migrated disc fragments can be implicated as a cause of low back pain, radiculopathy or cauda equina syndrome, especially in the absence of visible disc herniation. A high index of suspicion needs to be maintained in those cases with unexplained and persistent symptoms and/or no obvious disc herniation on MR images. PMID: 32130089 [PubMed - as supplied by publisher]
Source: Journal of Spinal Cord Medicine - Category: Orthopaedics Tags: J Spinal Cord Med Source Type: research
er K Abstract Calcitonin gene-related peptide (CGRP) is released from trigeminal afferents during migraine and cluster headache attacks and can be detected in the jugular plasma. Infusion of CGRP can induce headache attacks in migraine and cluster patients. Inhibition of the CGRP signal system is therapeutic in migraine and cluster headache. CGRP is a potent dilator of intracranial arteries but does not immediately activate the trigeminal pain system. CGRP may act as a signal molecule between different cells in the trigeminal ganglion and enhances nociceptive transmission in the spinal trigeminal nucleus. Per...
Source: Schmerz - Category: Anesthesiology Authors: Tags: Schmerz Source Type: research
ConclusionsSpinal Hevin was involved in the maintenance of remifentanil-induced postoperative hyperalgesia via modulating membrane trafficking of AMPA receptors.
Source: Neuroscience Letters - Category: Neuroscience Source Type: research
Authors: Kikutani K, Itai J, Ota K, Chosa K, Yamane Y, Shime N Abstract Bronchial artery aneurysms are a rare but potentially life-threatening complications because of the massive hemothorax or hemoptysis that occurs with ruptures. A 79-year-old woman was transferred to our hospital because of the sudden onset of back pain, syncope, and subsequent hypotension. Computed tomography showed a left bronchial artery aneurysm with bilateral hemothorax and hemomediastinum. Transcatheter bronchial artery embolization failed because of the anatomical location, and she went into cardiopulmonary arrest. Cardiopulmonary resusci...
Source: Internal Medicine - Category: Internal Medicine Tags: Intern Med Source Type: research
In conclusion, this study suggests that epigenetic age acceleration is significantly associated with lung function in women older than 50 years. We hypothesised that this could be due to menopause. However, we have observed that menopause has minimal effect and therefore there is possibility of other unknown physiological factors at older age in females mediating the epigenetic age acceleration effect on lung function. While, it is still unknown what exactly epigenetic aging from DNA methylation measures, this study suggests it can be utilised as one of the important factors to assess women's lung health in old age. DNA me...
Source: Fight Aging! - Category: Research Authors: Tags: Newsletters Source Type: blogs
Sótonyi P Abstract Treatment of thoracoabdominal aortic aneurysms is one of the most difficult challenges of vascular surgery. Endovascular options for complex aneurysms in urgent situation are limited. Thoracoabdominal giant aortic aneurysms are especially rare phenomena, each of them requires patient-specific treatment. Staged-fashion reconstructions may offer lower rate, especially for spinal cord injury. In our case report, we present a male patient, who had a 19.2 cm maximum diameter modified Crawford type V thoracoabdominal aortic aneurysm with contained rupture. The patient underwent an acute open r...
Source: Orvosi Hetilap - Category: General Medicine Authors: Tags: Orv Hetil Source Type: research
This study analyzes the impact of extended coverage upon adverse outcomes and aortic remodeling in patients with complicated acute Type B Aortic Dissection (aTBAD). METHODS: From 1/2012-10/2018, 91 patients underwent TEVAR for aTBAD. Median follow-up was 3.1years (IQR:1.2,4.9) and was complete in 94% of patients. The extent of aortic endograft coverage was categorized as Standard (n=39) or Extended (n=52). Contrast-enhanced imaging scans were analyzed to determine length of coverage, maximum aortic diameters, and false lumen (FL) status. RESULTS: The mean age was 52.6±13.9 years, and 66% were male. The mos...
Source: The Annals of Thoracic Surgery - Category: Cardiovascular & Thoracic Surgery Authors: Tags: Ann Thorac Surg Source Type: research
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