4 Ways to Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship

You finally met someone great! You have been dating about 4-5 months and everything is going really well. But the amphetamine-like rush of endorphins that were released in large quantities at the beginning of your new relationships are beginning to wane. The high of being swept up in intensity of the new are beginning to decrease. The passion of the honeymoon phase of the relationship is starting to calm. As this next phase of your relationship begins and familiarity, comfort, safety sets in and intensity decreases, you might yearn to get back to the thrill of a new relationship. At Relationup, an app that provides live, 24/7 relationship advice from professionals via chat, we have discovered that there are 4 common mistakes that people make to shake up their relationships and in the process destroy a perfectly good, blossoming romance.

You allow your insecurities to rule. You confuse this comfortable feeling for an empty feeling and conclude that something is missing. You worry that this pit in your stomach is a sign that your partner is not as into you as they once were. So, your default is to worry that their interests are elsewhere. You start accusing, snooping, investigating social media, getting angry, needing constant reassurance and creating drama. All of this is an effort to get more attention and feel wanted. In the end, you partner feels that you are too insecure and to needy. Reassuring you about their commitment becomes a full time job they don't want.

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Source: Healthy Living - The Huffington Post - May 2, 2016 Category: Consumer Health News Source Type: news