Why Victims of Microaggressions Need Allies

American culture is infused with subtle messages about what’s normal or not normal, and what is good or bad. These messages are reinforced through daily interactions that, for those whose race, nationality, sexual orientation, faith, disability or other attributes differ from cultural norms, can often cause exclusion or alienation. Even though they might be unintentional, microagressions — also called subtle acts of exclusion (SAE) — inflict harm. SAE insidiously reinforce bias. Statements such as, “I didn’t expect you to be so eloquent,” or “I can’t pronounce your name, so I’ll just call you ‘Taj,’” are pervasive, and go mostly unchecked. Yet they wear on victims’ physical and emotional well-being by making them feel different or less than. Still, pointing out the offense to a coworker, an acquaintance or a stranger can be awkward, or even perilous. But for a witness or bystander, ignoring an SAE or pretending it didn’t happen leaves the subject feeling invisible and silently condones the act. Because of this, the need for allies who are willing to stand up to SAE is extremely important. While it’s likely that the initiator will focus on the intent behind the remark, what in fact matters is the impact the remark had on the other person.  One of the most critical aspects of inclusion is that it must happen actively. It’s not enough to say you’re an ally and then not speak up in the face of adversity. When you witness an SAE, you have...
Source: World of Psychology - Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Tags: Abuse Anger Civil Rights discrimination exclusion microaggression Racism Source Type: blogs