Daughter Wants to Help Mom Give Dad Wonderful Last Father ’s Day

Photo credit Seth Hays Dear Carol: Father’s Day is coming up and my mom wants to make Dad’s day special because it’s probably his last one. My brother and I want this too, but how to make it work is where we disagree with Mom. Dad’s been in a nursing home because of several health problems, but terminal cancer is what will take him soon. The problem is that Mom’s physically frail herself and worse, her decision-making is shaky, so we feel that she’s being unrealistic. Dad’s in pain and he tires easily. He needs a wheelchair, and Mom’s apartment has steps. He’s also on oxygen. While we understand where Mom’s desire comes from, bringing Dad home for dinner makes no sense for either of them. How can we get her to see that? – HG Continue reading on Inforum for more about this family who wants to celebrate Dad's last Father's Day: Minding Our Elders: Caregivers Share Their Personal Stories. “I hold onto your book as a life preserver and am reading it slowly on purpose...I don't want it to end.” ...Craig William Dayton, Film Composer Egosan wants to help you live your life fully: Try Egosan premium underwear for discrete, dignified protection. For 20% off your first order on Amazon use promo Code: 20CAREGIVERS.              Related StoriesAnxiety During Social Outings May Have Worsened for People with DementiaStressed Caregiver Can Increase Anxiety in Someone with DementiaManagin...
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