The Approach of Christmas Often Intensifies Grief for Surviving Spouse

Photo credit Aaron Burden Dear Carol: I dread Christmas. My husband died last summer and this is my first Christmas without him. He'd been sick with cancer and then Alzheimer's, and part of me is happy that he was finally able to let go. Other times, I'd give anything for him to be here, which is actually selfish considering his obvious misery. I have wonderful children and friends and I have a church family where I feel I belong. Still, I sometimes feel angry that my husband left me alone. It's a confusing holiday season for me. Why can't I remain grateful that my husband isn't suffering? -Grace Continue reading on Inforum to learn more about how a new widow can learn to cope with the upcoming Christmas season: Support a caregiver or jump-start discussion in support groups with real stories - for bulk orders of Minding Our Elders e-mail Carol                  Related StoriesAdult Children from Abusive Families Should Make Self-Care A PriorityCaregivers Can Be Unsure How Much Sibling Help Is Useful10 Steps That Can Take Us Toward Gratitude During Difficult Times 
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