How Cool Dudes Become Grumpy Old Men

In his 20’s and 30’s, Brad was a cool dude. In his 40’s, and 50’s, Brad was a busy business man (with a wife and 3 kids). In his 60’s and 70’s, Brad retired and became a grumpy old man. What the heck happened? And what’s a grumpy old man anyway? Brad became a grumpy old man (without realizing it) when his comments began to consist primarily of complaints. He’s become moody, quick to anger, intolerant of everyday annoyances, and upset with the world changing around him. Now that he no longer has his work to focus on, he’s not sure how to spend his time.  And so he finds fault with you:  “You spend too much money.” “You keep asking too many questions.”  “I don’t want to go out with those people.” What has happened to his inner world that has instigated this change? He used to be the rock; the strong one; the one who took charge. Now, he feels useless. What is he supposed to do each day? He used to be athletic. Now he’s got a litany of physical complaints. His back hurts. His knee is killing him. His sleep pattern is erratic. He used to be upbeat. Now he’s sad and grouchy but he won’t admit it. Push him to admit it and he becomes angry, ranting at you to leave him alone. He used to like to learn new things. Now he’s gotten set in his ways. The world is changing around him and he doesn’t like it. He used to enjoy being with people. If you make it happen, he’ll go along with it (mostly), but not with a great deal of enthusiasm. He ...
Source: World of Psychology - Category: Psychiatry & Psychology Authors: Tags: Aging Agitation Alcoholism Anger Depression Men's Issues Cynicism Hormones Negativity Retirement Testosterone Source Type: blogs