Friendships

This has come up time and again but for some reason I have seen it more often in my Facebook feed in the last few weeks. Friendships - they come and go. We make friends and we lose friends. Some friends we lose when we change and move on - maybe we used to work together, live next door to each other, go to school together, or some other commonality which held us together but doesn ' t any more.Other times we opt to lose our friends when they appear to have changed. The point is from your perception you don ' t really want them as a friend any more. For instance, if you had a friend and they did something unethical/illegal wouldn ' t you be uncomfortable with their friendship? I don ' t know anyone who did anything illegal but can think of a several instances where two different friends made me very uncomfortable with their ethical choices.Or what if you think your friend is developing emotional issues and they refuse to take care of themselves, to take any advice on it, and do not consider themselves to have any emotional problems. An example is that if you had a friend who became a hoarder, what would you do? What can you do? Hoarding is characteristic which is telling us something more is going on with them emotionally. They need help but if they are in denial over their situation, what can you do?What if you think your friend is just using you? I had a friend and, I kid you not, for a couple of years she used to call me to see how the traffic was before she drove home from...
Source: Caroline's Breast Cancer Blog - Category: Cancer & Oncology Tags: aggravation changes friends Source Type: blogs