Be Kind but Firm about Mother's Place in Family's Life

Dear Carol: My mom had a small stroke six months ago. She’s always had a controlling, manipulative personality that everyone gives into. After her stroke, she announced that she was moving in with us during rehab because she didn’t want to hire strangers to help her at home, so I let her. Now, she’s fully recovered. The doctor says that there is no cognitive damage, but she’s settled in. We need our home back. She’s always criticizing the kids and my husband is so stressed that he’s ready to walk out. We’ve kept Mom’s apartment and she could go back there now or she could move to assisted living if she chooses. She needs to get back with her friends and her previously active life for all of our sakes. I know that I need to stand up to her but I never have and now it seems impossible. What do I do? – Mary Sue Read full article on Inforum about how to convince Mom to move back home: Support a caregiver or jump start discussion in support groups with real stories - for bulk orders of Minding Our Elders e-mail Caro I'm honored to be among over 50 presenters in this summit who want to help make your caregiving journey easier. Click the image to learn more: Related articles WBZ Cares: Alzheimer's Association Helps Patients With Early Signs of Disease How a bill requiring Florida nursing homes to have backup AC died Seniors fight post-hurricane heat with Popsicles, compresses             ...
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