Masturbation

I have a few questions about this very uncomfortable subject. 1. Is it wrong or bad to do? I was reading a Christian magazine and it said it isn't wrong (I'll link it here http://www.focusonthefamily.com/pare...r-puberty.aspx) "Your approach to this issue will need to be both tactful and realistic. A bottom line worth stressing is that masturbation should not play a major role in your child's life, either as a source of relentless guilt or as a frequent and persistent habit that displaces healthy sexual relations in the future. If it happens once in a while, it happens." 2. I get no real pleasure from doing this. Like when I'm done, I kinda feel like it was a waste of my time, like if I do it to much, but if I do it once in a great while, I get a little bit of pleasure. But nothing that great. Is this normal? I don't exactly feel guilty, it's just not the best use of my time. I really only do this when I'm really bored. 3. TV shows describe teenage guys as people who only think about sex, and how their brains are "down there". This couldn't be any more false for me. I never ever think about sex, and if I do. I actually fear it to a degree. The only reason I want a girlfriend, is because I feel lonely and I want a companion to be with who cares about me as much as I care about them. Why am I like this? People think I'm gay cause I never make remarks like "She's hot" and stuff like that.
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